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When In Rome …

I have a private driver in Rome named Chito and he is Filipino. He is really knowledgeable about the city. He used to be a seminarian in the Philippines, so he is familiar with the history of religion.

Everytime my family goes to Rome, we hire him to drive us around to all the major pilgrimage and shopping sights.

He has a van that can accommodate 8 people. I love having a private driver because I can tell him exactly what I want to see. For instance, I was really craving Filipino food, so he took us to one. (John rolled his eyes the entire time).

He is so inexpensive. He only charged me €200 for 5 hours (for up to 8 people). If you sign up to a Viator tour group, they generally charge €130 per person. So it is cheaper to have a private driver if you have more than 2 passengers.

If you ever visit Rome, let me know, and I could give you his information.


 

What’s Cooking Good Looking?

When I’m in Europe, sometimes I attend cooking classes. They are really not that expensive and they are fun, you get to meet interesting people, and you get a meal out of it.

I booked this class on Viator and it is for two hours, and they taught us how to make pizza from scratch and tiramisu. After the class, we sat down with other students and they served wine with what we cooked.

All these for only €55. If you think about it, a pizza, wine and dessert in Italy what cost you around €26. So it is definitely worth it because I got to learn a new skill. The food was really amazing.

You can book a similar class on Viator and read reviews about the class. 

 

Italy vs Greece: Battle of the Real Estate

About two years ago, I went home from Greece and excitedly asked John if we can buy a house in Greece. He counter offered Italy instead. Because Italy is his favorite country.

I reasoned that I love Italy too, but we have so many friends in Greece and I feel like we have a community here. And we do not speak a word of Italian but many Greeks speak English. And if we ever need anything, we can reach out to our Greek friends and they can help us.

He then reasoned that houses in Italy are much cheaper, and we can use it year-round. Whereas the islands in Greece are pretty much shut down the entire winter. I told him that a villa in Tuscany is so boring after three days. The nearest supermarket is 20 minutes away. 😡😡

Last year I prepared an entire business plan to build a small hotel here. I have also lined up a few interested investors. But that it’s on hold because he really wants Italy. 😂😂😂

Last year, I bought a house in the Philippines without telling him. 😂😂😂 He gave me the cold shoulders for two weeks. (He never gets mad at me 😡😂). If I was not the one feeding him, he would probably kick me out.

I seriously blame my mother for this. My mother used to buy land and houses without telling my father.
My dad had no idea. A typical wife hide shoe purchases from their husbands, my mother bought land. 😂😂

“Greece vs Italy” — It is a topic we do not discuss in our house. 😂😂 We are still at an impasse.

Olympics Closing Ceremonies Recap


This summer, I had the incredible opportunity to visit Paris, not just to soak in the sights and culture, but to attend the 2024 Olympics as a spectator. As someone who has always been fascinated by sports and the spirit of competition, this journey was a dream come true! I have attended the Rio and London Olympics and now, Paris.

 

 

**Arriving in the City of Light**

Stepping off the plane at ORLY Airport, I felt the excitement in the air. Paris was buzzing with energy, and the anticipation of the Olympic Games added to the city’s allure. My first day was spent wandering through the cobbled streets, sipping coffee at a quaint café, and taking in the breathtaking architecture that the city is renowned for. The Eiffel Tower, the Seine River, and the charming neighborhoods were all alive with the spirit of the Games.

I am traveling with my friend Miranda from Ottawa and we met up with our other friends- Jana, Justin, Romain, Xavier and Priscilla.

**The Thrill of the Events**

As the days progressed, we attended a variety of events, from track, waterpolo, football, and field to synchronized swimming. The atmosphere in the stadiums was electric! The roar of the crowd, the cheers for athletes from around the world, and the stunning performances were nothing short of mesmerizing. We remember watching a thrilling gold medal football game between USA and Brazil, where the tension was palpable. When USA won, the stadium erupted in applause, uniting fans in a shared moment of joy.

The bronze medal match between the US and Hungary was also very intense. It was a tie match until the end. The teams had to do a shootout with USA winning.

**Connecting with Fellow Spectators**

One of the most rewarding aspects of the trip was meeting fellow spectators from different countries. I struck up conversations with fans from Brazil, USA, Italy and Canada, sharing our excitement and passion for the Games. It was inspiring to hear their stories and experiences, and it truly embodied the Olympic spirit of unity and camaraderie. We also had the honor of running into Earl Jones, who is a national treasure as an athlete for the US in 1984.

**The Closing Ceremony: A Night to Remember**

The closing ceremony was the highlight of my trip. The atmosphere was electric as we gathered in the iconic Stade de France. The stadium was beautifully decorated, and the performances were a vibrant celebration of culture and athleticism. The athletes marched in, proudly displaying their medals and waving to the crowd. The sense of achievement and joy was palpable. We paid $1750 for the tickets. It was incredible.

As the final act unfolded, fireworks lit up the night sky, and I couldn’t help but feel a wave of emotion wash over me. It was a poignant reminder of the hard work, dedication, and dreams that brought so many incredible athletes to this moment. I was fortunate enough to meet a few athletes after the ceremony, sharing quick conversations and taking photographs. Their humility and passion were inspiring, and it was a privilege to connect with them, even if just for a fleeting moment.

**Reflecting on an Amazing Journey**

As I packed my bags to return home, I reflected on the unforgettable experiences I had in Paris. The Olympics showcased not just athletic prowess, but also the beauty of global connection and unity. I returned with cherished memories, new friendships, and a renewed appreciation for the spirit of competition and togetherness.

Paris, with its stunning sights and vibrant atmosphere, will always hold a special place in my heart, especially as the backdrop for such an extraordinary event. I can’t wait for the next Olympic Games—who knows where my journey might take me next!

How to Get Olympic Tickets

People have been asking us how we got tickets to the Olympics. Here is how:

1) A year before each Olympic event, you need to log on to the Olympics website of your country. You create an account and create a wish list of the events that you would like to see. We paid for our tickets in May 2023.

2) There will be a raffle and you will be notified a month later if you get the opportunity to buy tickets to the events that you want to see.

3) Once you win this raffle, you have to buy your tickets within a few days.

COST: Each event vary in cost. It really depends on the size of the venue. Athletics and Football are normally held in massive stadiums so the tickets are cheaper at around $100 to $300.

Swimming, beach volleyball, diving, and water polo are held at smaller venues so the tickets are limited and therefore more expensive and harder to buy.

For Paris, opening ceremony tickets were $2,800, Closing Ceremonies for $1750.

This is the general rule for Olympics. They vary a little bit per host country. When I was at the London Olympics, finding tickets was incredibly difficult. I only got to see three events. For the Rio Olympics, it was very easy. Many of the locals cannot afford the price of the tickets so they became available.

For the Paris Olympics, it was also rather easy. We were able to get six tickets. We also won the rights to purchase for opening and closing ceremonies.

If you’re planning to go to the Los Angeles Olympics, their website is already up. You can sign up as early as now for updates- www.LA28.org

The Road to Happiness

Eveyone’s end goal is always retirement, right?
You go to school for 22 to 28 years, then work for another 35 to 44 years. Then you can start enjoying life at 65.

I think people have this concept all wrong. By 65, you probably can’t hike that hill anymore, can’t golf as much, can’t scuba dive, and can’t party. Your body at 65 is a lot different than a 45 year old version of you. And for some people, they save all their money, and sadly don’t make it to 65.

When I was 38, I had chest pains so bad, I thought I was going to die. That’s when I realized that life can be cut short anytime. Since then, I lived my years like it was my last one.

When I was young, I have always aimed at becoming rich someday. Now, I don’t care about money as much. Experiences, adventures, friendships, charities, kindness and happiness are the core values I strive for. (Not always successful, but I always aim for them).

My mother, a planner, constant worrier and the most frugal woman I know, always worried about me. “What will happen to you when I pass?” She would always say that. And now, my sisters ask me the same question . “I will be fine,” I assured them.

Though money is important, always remember that when you pass away, no one cares about what car you drove, but they would remember how you many times you made them laugh, how you made them
feel, and how much time you spent together.

I have learned from the Dalai Lama that one’s goal in life should not be to be rich, but to be happy. And the only way you get there is through contentment.

Happiness is not just a fleeting emotion, but an essential aspect of our well-being. It is the fuel that propels us forward, giving us the strength to overcome challenges and embrace life’s joys. Striving to be happy is not a selfish pursuit. When we prioritize our own happiness, we become better equipped to spread positivity and make a meaningful impact on the world.

Remember that happiness is not a destination to be reached, but a journey to be embraced, and let us strive for it with unwavering determination and gratitude.

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Asakusa is Tokyo’s Best Area

My family ranks Japan in their Top 3 favorite countries- except for me. I have been there 6 times and never understood the fascination until my recent trip. I never used to like it because for me, Tokyo looks like New York, but with Japanese writings on the buildings. I have always thought that Japan lacked culture unlike Bali.

 

However, during our last visit, we stayed in Asakusa. It was my first time there and I fell in love with it immediately .

Asakusa retains the vibe of an older Tokyo, with traditional craft shops and street-food stalls along Nakamise Street near the ancient Sensō-ji temple. Mid-19th-century Hanayashiki amusement park has rides and cafes, while riverside Kuritsu Sumida Park hosts regular festivals and firework displays.

I would get lost in alleys lined with traditional stores selling kimonos, silk fabrics, Japanese wares, etc. This is how I imagined Japan.

If you’re ever in Tokyo, I recommend you stay in this area.

Home is where your mother is …

Back at our lake house in Tagaytay. This place holds so many memories for a over 2 decades now. It was my mom’s dream house she had constructed based on a cabin we stayed at in Big Bear.

 

It was here where I surprised my family after 8 years of absence. I wrapped myself up in a blanket and walked towards my family while they were eating. The screaming can be heard for miles and miles.

It was also here where I first Introduced John to the family. “Mom, this is my American ‘friend’ John.” She hugged him and gave him a tour.

When my sister was assigning rooms, she said “John will sleep in the masters bedroom.” So I leaned over and whispered “Where will I sleep?” She said “Masters bedroom with John, of course.”
They knew.

The house is about 5,000 square feet in size (464 square meters) and has 5 floors. But our entire family of 20+ always hang out In one room- the kitchen. My parents watched their smalll family of 6 grow and grow and grow.

When we are here, we would literally sit around all day and the housekeepers (or my sisters) would bring out food and snacks all day long. We have had this house for over 25 years and we have never seen most of the attractions around the lake. Being together with the family was the main attraction when we visited.

Even at my age, my mom insisted I sleep on her bed with her. There are a dozen beds, but I had to sleep next to her. We would be face to face and she would hold my two hands with hers and caress it. I can’t understand it back then, but she must have been enjoying having her child home.

As we grew older, our nephews and nieces made their own memories here. They have many drunken moments here. (Yes kids, we know). They have brought their friends here for weekend getaways and sung karaoke all night long.

My mother loved this house. Even during her last years, she would ask the family to visit. She would lay on the couch while all her great grand kids scream and jump all over her. She enjoyed every minute of it.

She loved this place so much, she purchased the four other parcels of land next to it. She didnt want to have neighbors.

It was a bit bitter sweet coming In to the house last night without her. There’s so many memories of my mother in every corner.

Thanks mom … we will cherish you, and this house forever.

Guatemala: Exploring the Rich Heritage of Antigua and Lake Atitlan

Villa Santa Catarina is on the base of this beautiful mountainside community. Just 2 minutes walk is the lake. The rooms offer views of the 3 majestic volcanoes.

Welcome to the heart of Central America, where ancient traditions meet breathtaking landscapes. Antigua, Guatemala, and Lake Atitlan together create a magical journey that blends colonial charm with natural splendor. Over the next seven days, I invite you to immerse yourself in the vibrant culture, explore historical sites, and unwind by the serene shores of Lake Atitlan.

Fly to Guatemala’s La Aurora International Airport (Airport Code: GUA). There are several airlines that fly direct to GUA from LA (Delta and Avianca). Upon landing, skip Guatemala City because there is not much to see in this city, even my Guatemalan friends would admit this. Guatamala City is safe and very clean, but the beauty of the country is outside the city.

From the airport, you can arrange for a private service from your hotel, take a taxi or uber to head to Antigua, which is roughly 15 miles from the airport, or a beautiful 45 to 60 minute car ride. A private car costs about USD $60 to $70, and about USD$40 for uber. My friend Charlie Revolorio is a travel guide and can help you book a seemless ride – you can reach him on Whatsapp at +502-5559-8986. He is very kind, honest and amazing.

Side tip while you’re at the airport- buy a simm card for your phone. They can do it quick and cheap!

Day 1-2: Antigua – Colonial Marvels and Culinary Delights

Start your adventure in Antigua, a UNESCO World Heritage site renowned for its well-preserved Spanish Baroque-influenced architecture.

I stayed at the Hotel Meson de Maria (http://hotelmesondemaria.com/esp/) which is a mansion or a noble ancestral home turned into a hotel. I loved this hotel and it was fairly inexpensive ($80/night for the regular room). If you have more budget, stay at the room that has a balcony or has a window that overlooks the outdoors. The location of this hotel couldn’t be more perfect.

 

Hotel Meson de Maria is a small hotel centrally located in the heart of the historical district.

 

There other more fabulous hotels in the area. The key in picking a hotel is to make sure you’re in the town and NOT OUTSIDE OF THE OLD TOWN. I cannot stress this enough.

Spend your first day wandering through cobbled streets lined with pastel-hued buildings. Don’t miss the iconic Santa Catalina Arch, a symbol of Antigua’s rich history. Visit the Central Plaza, Parque Central, surrounded by the stunning Antigua Cathedral and the Palace of the Captains General.

 

The famous arch in Antigua. You must come here!

In the evenings, explore the local culinary scene. Antigua boasts a diverse array of restaurants, from traditional Guatemalan fare to international cuisine. Savor a cup of world-renowned Guatemalan coffee in one of the charming cafes, and treat your taste buds to local specialties like Pepián or Kak’ik.

Day 3-4: Antigua – Cultural Immersion Dive deeper into Antigua’s cultural treasures on day three. Visit the Santo Domingo Monastery, home to the Jade Maya exhibit and a stunning courtyard. Explore the Casa Popenoe and the La Merced Church, each showcasing unique architectural details.

If you want to know more about the rich history of the town, please call Charlie for a very fascinating walking tour of the town. He can take you to secret spots as well!

Take a coffee tour to discover the journey from bean to cup, learning about Guatemala’s coffee-making traditions. (This was incredible!)

In the evening, join a traditional dance performance or catch live music at one of the local venues. You can arrange this coffee tour from little travel shops in the town. The hotel can also make a recommendation.

When dining, ask for authentic restaurants from a local and read reviews. There are so many restaurants in town that try to be too westernized (avoid those).

This may sound silly- but check out the local Starbucks and McDonald’s. They are probably the most beautiful Starbucks you have ever been to. Don’t worry, they serve Guatemalan coffee.

Antigua’s Starbucks isn’t your typical chain outlet in West Hollywood. As you step inside, the air is infused with the warm aroma of freshly brewed Guatemalan coffee beans. The interior design pays homage to the city’s colonial heritage, featuring intricate wooden accents and vibrant textiles that mirror the traditional Mayan craftsmanship found in the local markets.

One of the highlights of the Starbucks in Antigua is its charming outdoor patio adorned with terracotta tiles. Surrounded by lush greenery and colorful bougainvillea, the patio offers a tranquil escape from the bustling streets. It’s an ideal spot to sip your favorite Starbucks beverage while soaking in the colonial architecture and absorbing the vibrant energy of Antigua.

Me at Starbucks waiting for my order. The leaves protect me from the sun. LOL.

Day 5-7: Lake Atitlan – Tranquil Bliss and Indigenous Culture

On day five, embark on a scenic journey to Lake Atitlan, one of the most picturesque lakes in the world.

From Antigua, you can take a public shuttle to Lake Atitlan for 2.5 hours (Panajachel is the main town there). The shuttle costs about $22 per person. Or you can hire a private driver like I did and pay USD$100. I heard that the shuttle service is pretty safe.

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Surrounded by volcanoes and indigenous villages, the lake offers a serene escape. Stay in one of the lakeside towns like Panajachel, San Pedro, San Marcos, Santa Cruz or Santa Catarina. You can get to Santa Catarina by car or tuktuk (motorized vehicle for 3-4), and take a short ferry ride to San Pedro, Santa Cruz and San Marcos.

Charlie (left, my tour guide and friend) and Miguel, a new friend I met there from Colombia. Amazing guys!

I met Julie from New York when I offered to take her photos. Gaby is Charlie’s best friend. Great group!

There are many small hotels by the lake which are very charming and fairly inexpensive. I stayed at Villa Santa Catarina and it was absolutely peaceful and gorgeous. The only downside are – 1) There are no restaurants outside the hotel (but many street food vendors) 2) You have to take a tuktuk to get to a ferry. HOWEVER, the upside is, it is very tranquil and peaceful because it is off the beaten path. To book this hotel: https://www.villasdeguatemala.com/es/villa-santa-catarina (Rates go for $85 to $100 and it includes a delicious breakfast).

Airbnb has incredible Conde Nast-worthy lake houses that will make you the envy of your social circle. The best part? Many are under $150 for a 1 bedroom with a view of the 3 glorious volcanoes and the lake. (There are even gems for $50/night).

Days six and seven are dedicated to exploring the beauty of Lake Atitlan. Take a boat tour to visit the charming villages of Santiago Atitlan, San Marcos, and Santa Cruz. Engage with the indigenous Mayan communities, known for their vibrant textiles and handicrafts.

For adventure seekers, consider hiking one of the surrounding volcanoes for panoramic views of the lake and its surroundings. There are so many hiking trails for all levels. We managed to hike several hills and the view was absolutely incredible.

Wind down your week with yoga by the lake or a relaxing spa day. Have a cerveza or two from any of the beautiful cantinas. I hired a local masseuse for only $35. I also had a foot massage at a local spa for $28.

The lake is so peaceful, I can stay here for a week and not get bored. (With $40 massages, yoga and delicious fruit salad – I am a happy camper).

A week split between the historical wonders of Antigua and the tranquil beauty of Lake Atitlan provides a perfect balance of culture, history, and natural splendor. As you bid farewell to this enchanting region, take with you not just memories of picturesque landscapes but a deep appreciation for the rich tapestry of Guatemala’s cultural heritage.

Top Neighborhoods in Paros, Greece

Exploring the Timeless Beauty of Paros

Nestled in the heart of the Cyclades archipelago in Greece, the picturesque island of Paros beckons travelers with its enchanting landscapes, crystal-clear waters, captivating traditional charm and wonderful locals. Renowned for its traditional whitewashed buildings, idyllic beaches, and rich history, Paros has become an increasingly popular destination for tourists seeking a perfect blend of relaxation, culture, and natural beauty.

President Barack Obama and the first lady were both in Paros vacationing at the same time I was on the island. Last year, I was on the island at the same time James Franco was visiting. We were at the same restaurant Stratheros, just a table away. Then two years ago, Justin Bieber and wife Hayley, were on there the same time I was visiting.

Join us as we embark on a virtual journey to discover the top tourist spots that make Paros an irresistible gem in the Aegean Sea for these celebrities:

  1. Parikia – The Charming Capital:

Your exploration of Paros begins in Parikia, the island’s vibrant capital. This enchanting town welcomes you with its narrow streets, traditional architecture, and a delightful waterfront lined with tavernas and cafes. Stroll through the winding alleys of the old town, visit the historic Church of Panagia Ekatontapyliani (Our Lady of a Hundred Gates), and immerse yourself in the captivating atmosphere of this ancient Greek port. Great shopping on these winding alleys! Greek designers are very talented! I always come home with a suitcase filled with locally-sourced products.

  1. Naoussa – A Seaside Paradise:

Located on the northern coast of Paros, the quaint fishing village of Naoussa is a must-visit destination for travelers. Its picturesque harbor, adorned with colorful fishing boats and lined with charming waterfront restaurants, exudes a romantic ambiance. Explore the narrow streets filled with boutique shops, visit the Venetian castle, and bask in the idyllic beaches nearby, such as Kolymbithres Beach, known for its unique granite rock formations.

  1. Lefkes – A Step Back in Time:

Escape the coastal allure and venture inland to the picturesque village of Lefkes, situated in the heart of Paros. Immerse yourself in the island’s rich history and traditional way of life as you wander through its whitewashed houses, Byzantine churches, and winding stone paths. Don’t miss the opportunity to hike along the Byzantine Road, offering breathtaking views of the island’s verdant landscapes.

  1. Golden Beach and Pounda – Paradise for Watersports Enthusiasts:

Paros boasts some of the most stunning beaches in the Aegean, and Golden Beach (Chrissi Akti) is a paradise for watersports enthusiasts. With its golden sand and turquoise waters, this expansive beach offers excellent conditions for windsurfing, kiteboarding, and other water activities. If you prefer a more relaxed atmosphere, head to Pounda Beach, where you can enjoy the tranquil surroundings or take a short boat ride to the neighboring island of Antiparos.

  1. Antiparos – A Hidden Gem:

While technically a separate island, Antiparos is easily accessible from Paros and well worth a visit. This unspoiled paradise captivates visitors with its laid-back atmosphere, pristine beaches, and charming cave, the Antiparos Cave. Explore the winding streets of the main town, relax on secluded beaches, and savor the tranquility that defines this hidden gem of the Cyclades. Tom Hanks and wife Rita has a house on this island.

Paros, with its unique blend of natural beauty, rich history, and timeless charm, offers a truly unforgettable Greek island experience. From the captivating capital of Parikia to the romantic village of Naoussa, and from the windsurfing paradise of Golden Beach to the hidden gem of Antiparos, every corner of this idyllic island has something special to offer. Whether you seek relaxation on pristine beaches, a glimpse into ancient Greek culture, or an adventure on the turquoise waters of the Aegean Sea, Paros is a destination that will undoubtedly leave you with lasting memories. So, pack your bags and embark on this wonderful journey.